12 Real Signs Of True Love In A Relationship

True love may be hard to define, but the signs to
read true love can be clearly seen in every perfect
loving relationship.
If you’re in a relationship and want to know if you’re
experiencing the purest form of love, use these 12
signs of true love to find out for yourself.
#1. Give and take in love. You give to the
relationship wholeheartedly, without any desire or
expectations of getting something back in return
from your partner to justify your actions.
#2. Pure happiness. Just watching this special person
smile or laugh out loud fills you with intense
happiness, even if you’re suffering or having a hard
day.
#3. Pain and anger. You get terribly hurt when your
lover upsets you, but their actions never anger you.
You may get annoyed or frustrated now and then
momentarily, but you just can’t stay mad at them for
long because staying mad or giving them the silent
treatment hurts you more.
#4. Sacrifices. You make sacrifices for their happiness
or well being, even if they may never realize it.
#5. The right effort. You go to great lengths and
make an effort to improve the relationship, and play
a conscious part in trying to please your partner and
make them feel loved and special.
#6. You can't even hurt them. When you’re truly in
love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting
them, emotionally or physically. Payback is a strong
human instinct, but true love makes you completely
selfless.
#7. You keep your promises. When you make a
promise to them, you stick to your word even if this
person will never find out if you broke their promise.
When you experience true love, your moral
conscience becomes very strong when it comes to
this one special person.
#8. WE. In a perfect relationship, it’s good to have
your own space to grow as individuals. But at the
same time, if you truly love your partner, you’d see
them as a part of your life. When you think of your
future, you can’t help but see them by your side.
#9. You share their burden. And you do that even if
you don’t really have to. You can’t bear to see this
special someone suffering. If they’re dealing with
some issue, you’re always willing to offer them a
helping hand even when you have your own
difficulties to look into.
#10. Pride and jealousy. You beam with pride when
they achieve something, even if it’s the same thing
you failed at. You may get jealous of a friend who
outdid you, but when you love someone, jealousy
never enters the picture.
#11. Suffering. You’d be willing to suffer, just to see
them happy.
#12. Their perspective. Everything you do, you keep
your lover in mind and think from their perspective,
be it about planning a surprise party or hanging out
with your own friends after work. You don’t ever want
to hurt your lover, so you always think from their
point of view before making any decision that
involves them in any way.