You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/Marriage

There are many things you should never

tolerate in a relationship, though many of

these things are MUCH easier said than done.

We are complex beings and while we may

rationally know we should not be with

someone for some reason, it is not always so

easy to "just walk away." Always remember

that you are a worthy being and that you

never "deserve" harmful things a partner may

inflict upon you; so don't forget this list of

things you should never tolerate in a

relationship by Olivia Simone!

1. Cheating

Of all the #things you should never tolerate in

a relationship, cheating is an obvious one.

Cheating should not be tolerated in a

relationship for several reasons. One, if your #

partner is cheating, you don't know what

diseases he may be picking up from others,

and these could jeopardize your own health.

For another, cheating breaks trust, which is a

major foundation of a healthy relationship. If

you happen to feel, given your particular

circumstances, that working through an

incident is an option you want to explore, fine,

but do NOT, by any means, tolerate perpetual

cheating. A cheater is not worth your own

well-being.

2. Lying

In addition to cheating, perpetual lying should

not be tolerated as trust is a key foundation in

any relationship. A white lie here and there is

not necessarily something to get worked up

over, but if you catch your #partner lying to

you on a regular basis, it's time to rethink

your relationship with that person.

3. Out-of-Control Tempers

Anger is a natural human emotion. Everyone

feels angry at times, but anger and an out-of-

control temper are two drastically different

concepts. If you find that your #partner

punches holes in walls, takes his anger out on

you in an inappropriate manner, makes

threats, breaks things, etc., this is not a

healthy expression of anger and can lead to

devastating consequences in your

relationship. Do not tolerate this behavior.

Either insist that he seek treatment options for

his temper or drop him.

4. Physical or Sexual Abuse

Abuse of any form should not be tolerated in a

relationship. Unfortunately, many people fail

to recognize #signs of domestic abuse for a

number of reasons. You must first realize that

no matter what, you NEVER deserve to be

abused. If your #partner hits you, beats you,

rapes you (and yes, this includes marital rape)

, or inflicts any sort of physical violence on

you, try your best to get out of the situation. I

know this is often easier said than done, but

realize not all #men are like this and that you

are worthy of someone who will treat your

body with respect!

5. Mental or Emotional Abuse

Mental and emotional abuse are often even

harder to detect than physical or sexual

abuse. If your partner uses manipulation,

threats, belittlement, or any other means of

making you feel unsafe, insecure, or bad about

yourself, this is most likely a form of abuse as

well. Do not tolerate a #partner who makes

you feel unworthy. And remember, no matter

what he says to knock you down, the shame is

on him, not on you.

6. Harm to Your Children

If you find that your partner has in any way

jeopardized the well-being of your children,

get rid of him immediately. Whether they are

his children or not, he must respect them as

well as you. If your children ever say that they

have been inappropriately touched, harmed

physically, etc. by your #partner, he MUST go.

NEVER tolerate a #man who harms your

children.

7. Disrespect

Ultimately, all of these things can be boiled

down to disrespect in some manner. If you find

that your #partner is not respecting your

body, thoughts, emotions, etc., find someone

else who will.

These are some of the things I don't feel

should ever be tolerated in a relationship.

What other #things do you think should never

be tolerated in a relationship?