5 Signs That show You're Not Ready For A New Relationship.

Here are 5 signs that means you're not ready

to get into a new relationship after a breakup.

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1. You still think about your ex

This sign is epidemically common especially

when you had strong affection for your ex. It

mostly occurs when you're alone and your

mind tend to wonder away and leads you to

those memorable moments you had with your

ex. You tend to smile and wish the

relationship hadn't crumbled.

If you still experience such, it simply means

you're not ready for that new relationship, you

still have intimate feelings for that your ex

and you need to obliterate it in order for you

to move on completely and be happy with your

new love.

2. You compare your current relationship with

your prior one.

In most cases, the individuals involved are

usually the centre of comparison.

That is, when you tend to compare your

current gf/bf with your ex..

Humans are heterogeneous in character and

attitude, therefore you should expect a

contrasting character between your boo and

your ex.

They maybe most behaviours that you poised

towards your ex that he/she approved and

finds no wrong in it, but when you exhibit

same behaviour towards your new boo, he/she

gets irritated. When you experience such, it

simply means you need to do some little

adjustment that will be suited for the

happiness of you and your boo without

causing harm to yourself. (it doesn't mean you

should change who you are).

But when you find yourself saying or thinking

this.. '' If it were to be John(your ex) he

wouldn't react this way''...

This is a clear indication that you haven't

gotten over your ex, and definitely your new

relationship may hit the rocks in sooner time.

3. You still checkup/peep on your ex on social

media

This happens when you intentionally surf

through your ex's photos, status updates,

tweets etc.

In epitome, you want to know whats recent

about your ex.

This is a clear indication that you haven't

moved on and you're certainly not ready for a

new relationship. There's still that deem

feeling lingering in your heart that you haven't

been able to do away with.

If you still experience this, you're definitely not

fit for a new relationship.

Take time to heal and don't rush into a new

relationship, you may rush out!

4. You get uneasy at the sight of your ex and

snub him/her

you may disagree with me,, but I'm positive

about this!

If really you've completely moved on, there's

definitely no problem in responding to a

pleasantry passed by your ex. You guys can

chill for a while and have a brief talk asking

about each others' wellbeing (it doesn't meant

you're still in love). No harm in that! Afterall

his/she is not an ebola patient that you see

and change rout or throw your face to another

direction. - if you still do this, you're not ready

for a new relationship cause you haven't

gotten over the last one.

5. You secretly wish your ex would apologise

This usually happens during early stages of a

break up.

That moment your phones rings and you hope

its your ex calling to apologise!

In most cases, such feelings may take a

longer time to wear off (depends on the

individual).

It may not only be during the early stages of

a breakup, but the moment you keep wishing

for your ex to return back is a clear indication

that you're not ready for a new relationship.

NOTE: don't get into a new relationship in

attempt to forget the last one and don't date

someone in attempt to forget your ex.. It may

bounce back!

True love is harnessed when the heart is free,

and not when its occupied by the emotional

thoughts of the past!

When you've experienced a breakup, don't rush

into a new relationship, take time to heal and

move on..

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